Zgłoszenie pytania What's wrong with this question? Nie można wysłać pustego zgłoszenia. Dodaj jakieś szczegóły. 123456789101112 Assertiveness Situational Test 1 / 12 During a family dinner, your brother criticizes the way you raise your children. "I don't agree with your opinion and I prefer that we don't discuss my parenting methods at the table." "Maybe you're right, I need to think about it." "And how do you plan on raising your children if you're so perfect?" "Get on with your life and leave me alone!" 2 / 12 A loved one says that "a true friend would understand" while trying to force a specific action. How do you react? “A real friend wouldn't ask me to do something like that!” You openly and firmly say, “Stop. You won't blackmail me!” “I feel emotionally blackmailed. It hurts me. I would like us to solve our problems openly.” You agree for the good of your relationship. 3 / 12 Your friend asks you to speak more quietly because loud conversations disturb his concentration. "Maybe you should work from home if you need some quiet." "Sorry, I'm yelling again." "Sorry, I didn't realize I was interrupting. I'll try to speak more quietly." "This is the office, people are talking here!" 4 / 12 A close friend asks you to stop using his cup that you accidentally took several times. "It's just a cup, but if it's that important, then ok." "Don't make such a big deal out of it!" "Oh, I won't use it again. I'm so dumb." "Sorry, I didn't notice it was your cup. I'll try to remember that." 5 / 12 You have a different idea for solving a serious challenge facing your team and you talk about it specifically, hoping for a creative discussion, but no one is willing to discuss it: You suggest that everyone think about the task and submit their proposal at the next meeting. You are determined to implement your plan - someone has to take responsibility - the rest will follow. “I don't think anyone cares that we do it really well.” You apologize to the team for trying to dominate the discussion: “I'm sure there are better ideas than mine.” 6 / 12 Your parent says that "Your sister always got better grades than you" to push you to try harder. How do you react? You try harder even though you feel unappreciated. “I understand that you care about my results, but comparing me to my sister makes me feel worse instead of motivating me.” "If she's so perfect, maybe you should just focus on her." “Stop comparing me to my sister! I'm not going to listen to you!” 7 / 12 Your boss explains that he needs you to start submitting reports at the end of each week. You openly and firmly inform him: "I don't have time for more tasks!" "I see, I'll start doing it. Can I ask you for information on what exactly it should look like?" "Is it because you don't trust me to do my job?" "Okay, I'll start doing it (although I don't know why)." 8 / 12 Your partner stops talking when you don't meet his expectations in order to force you to apologize or change your behavior. How do you react? I want to talk about it. This situation is very unpleasant for me. You openly call things by their name: it's immature. You're acting like a child! You ignore him, hoping that he will eventually get tired of the silence and start talking. You apologize even though you don't know what you did wrong. 9 / 12 While discussing politics, a friend publicly ridicules your views. "I don't agree with your opinion. I feel humiliated when I feel like you make fun of things that are important to me." "Maybe I really don't know this well." "People usually attack when they feel threatened by someone else's arguments, right?" "Stop attacking me or I will find a way to shut you up!" 10 / 12 For a long time, you have been waiting for your boss's reaction regarding the risk you reported in an important project. “I won't lift a finger on anything until we figure out what to do next.” “Two weeks ago I gave you information about X. Can you tell me what the decision is on this matter?” “Some people prefer that everything falls apart because we will have to do it all over again.” Even though the whole situation is very stressful for you, you wait for your superior to take up the matter himself. 11 / 12
