Zgłoszenie pytania What's wrong with this question? Nie można wysłać pustego zgłoszenia. Dodaj jakieś szczegóły. 123456789101112 Assertiveness Situational Test 1 / 12 Your friend asks you to speak more quietly because loud conversations disturb his concentration. "Maybe you should work from home if you need some quiet." "Sorry, I didn't realize I was interrupting. I'll try to speak more quietly." "Sorry, I'm yelling again." "This is the office, people are talking here!" 2 / 12 For a long time, you have been waiting for your boss's reaction regarding the risk you reported in an important project. “Two weeks ago I gave you information about X. Can you tell me what the decision is on this matter?” Even though the whole situation is very stressful for you, you wait for your superior to take up the matter himself. “I won't lift a finger on anything until we figure out what to do next.” “Some people prefer that everything falls apart because we will have to do it all over again.” 3 / 12 While discussing politics, a friend publicly ridicules your views. "Maybe I really don't know this well." "I don't agree with your opinion. I feel humiliated when I feel like you make fun of things that are important to me." "People usually attack when they feel threatened by someone else's arguments, right?" "Stop attacking me or I will find a way to shut you up!" 4 / 12 An old lady tries to get in front of you in line: "Oh, I see some people consider themselves more important than others." "Sorry, you took my place." “Please don't push in!” "Well, maybe she's in a hurry, she's older..." 5 / 12 You propose going on holiday abroad to an all-inclusive hotel, but your partner's reaction is unclear: although he formally agrees, he does not show enthusiasm: Although I am very sorry, I will wait until the situation is resolved. “Next time you take care of everything yourself!” “I have a feeling you would prefer a different idea. I will be happy to make a joint decision with you.” “Who else would be overjoyed in a situation like this.” 6 / 12 A loved one says that "a true friend would understand" while trying to force a specific action. How do you react? “I feel emotionally blackmailed. It hurts me. I would like us to solve our problems openly.” You openly and firmly say, “Stop. You won't blackmail me!” You agree for the good of your relationship. “A real friend wouldn't ask me to do something like that!” 7 / 12 Your boss explains that he needs you to start submitting reports at the end of each week. "Is it because you don't trust me to do my job?" "Okay, I'll start doing it (although I don't know why)." "I see, I'll start doing it. Can I ask you for information on what exactly it should look like?" You openly and firmly inform him: "I don't have time for more tasks!" 8 / 12 Your parent says that "Your sister always got better grades than you" to push you to try harder. How do you react? You try harder even though you feel unappreciated. “Stop comparing me to my sister! I'm not going to listen to you!” "If she's so perfect, maybe you should just focus on her." “I understand that you care about my results, but comparing me to my sister makes me feel worse instead of motivating me.” 9 / 12 During a family dinner, your brother criticizes the way you raise your children. "Maybe you're right, I need to think about it." "And how do you plan on raising your children if you're so perfect?" "I don't agree with your opinion and I prefer that we don't discuss my parenting methods at the table." "Get on with your life and leave me alone!" 10 / 12 A close friend asks you to stop using his cup that you accidentally took several times. "Don't make such a big deal out of it!" "Oh, I won't use it again. I'm so dumb." "It's just a cup, but if it's that important, then ok." "Sorry, I didn't notice it was your cup. I'll try to remember that." 11 / 12
